Men's Breakfast - Matt Korniotes
Be strong and take your place as a man of God. I want to tell you that there
is one for each of you. But no one is going to hand it to you. God has
already done that. And I want to give you some reasons why each of us
need to step into what God has planned for us. Then we will talk briefly
about the how, and then we will be finished.
2 Kings 2:1-4, “Now the days of David drew near that he should die, and
he charged Solomon his son, saying: “I go the way of all the earth; be
strong, therefore, and prove yourself a man. And keep the charge of the
Lord your God: to walk in His ways, to keep His statutes, His
commandments, His judgments, and His testimonies, as it is written in the
Law of Moses, that you may prosper in all that you do and wherever you
turn; that the Lord may fulfill His word which He spoke concerning me,
saying, ‘If your sons take heed to their way, to walk before Me in truth with
all their heart and with all their soul,’ He said, ‘you shall not lack a man
on the throne of Israel.’”
Prove yourself a man is what we read in our English translations, and that
is a good and appropriate rendering of the Hebrew, however a literal word
for word translation would give us these words of David. Be strong, and
take your place as a man of God. It’s there. Your place is there. God has
designed it for you, called you into it, and when you step into it, He will
enable you for it…, but we have a charge, the impetus is on us, to take it.
To take our place.
We do this for several compelling reasons. First, for the Lord. To honor
Him. To respond to Him. To acknowledge Him for who He is which is
King, Savior, Lord, and Hero. Our General and our Comforter. Our Father
and our Master. Psalm 29:1-2 says, “Give unto the Lord, O you mighty
ones, give unto the Lord glory and strength. Give unto the Lord the glory
due to His name!”
Let me ask you. What glory is due to the Lord? For all that He has done
and for all that He is!? Just one element of what He has done. If you
believe that He has alone paid the comprehensive debt of your aggregate
sin, He alone has done that for you simply because He is good, simply
because He loves you, because He chose to take care of you, saving you
from eternal hell, giving you an eternal place in a kingdom of light, if that
is all He did (and it’s not), but just for that, what kind of response is He due
from me!? I cannot even put it into words… But I know, as a man, I know
what I owe Him! And I incessantly and intensely desire to repay in all my
strength!
Second compelling reason to take your place as a man amongst the men of
God is simply for yourselves. The best, most profitable, most
advantageous path you can choose for yourself is the one designed by a
God who is perfect in all His ways and faithful in all His words! And over
and over again we are given the infallible promise through countless
scriptures of the multiplied benefits of trusting the Lord. And so, we honor
God for the betterment of ourselves. We honor God for the shear wisdom
of it!
Proverbs 3:9-10, “Honor the Lord with your possessions,
and with the firstfruits of all your increase; So your barns will be filled
with plenty, and your vats will overflow with new wine!”
Proverbs 22:4, “By humility and the fear of the Lord are riches and honor
and life!”
Deuteronomy 28:1-9, “Now it shall come to pass, if you diligently obey the
voice of the Lord your God, to observe carefully all His commandments
which I command you today, that the Lord your God will set you high
above all nations of the earth. And all these blessings shall come upon you
and overtake you, because you obey the voice of the Lord your God:
“Blessed shall you be in the city, and blessed shall you be in the country.
“Blessed shall be the fruit of your body, the produce of your ground and
the increase of your herds, the increase of your cattle and the offspring of
your flocks. “Blessed shall be your basket and your kneading bowl.
“Blessed shall you be when you come in, and blessed shall you be when
you go out. “The Lord will cause your enemies who rise against you to be
defeated before your face; they shall come out against you one way and
flee before you seven ways. “The Lord will command the blessing on you in
your storehouses and in all to which you set your hand, and He will bless
you in the land which the Lord your God is giving you. “The Lord will
establish you as a holy people to Himself, just as He has sworn to you, if
you keep the commandments of the Lord your God and walk in His ways!”
The third compellation that we all have to take our place as men of God is
for the work of the kingdom! Each of us are designed intricately and
uniquely and each of us can do something or somethings that no one else
in all of creation can do! God has called us to be a body. The Body of
Christ is the church. We must all do our part lest we limp. Lest we numb
and hinder one another and stifle the work of God, not only in the church
but in our homes, our workplaces and in the world.
1 Corinthians 12:27-28, “Now you are the body of Christ, and members
individually. And God has appointed these in the church: first apostles,
second prophets, third teachers, after that miracles, then gifts of healings,
helps, administrations, varieties of tongues.”
Romans 12:4-6, “For as we have many members in one body, but all the
members do not have the same function, so we, being many, are one body
in Christ, and individually members of one another. Having then gifts
differing according to the grace that is given to us, let us use them!”
You do not become a man, according to the authority of the Word of God,
you do not become a man of God without serving in the work and mission
of God. And give whatever excuse you give and its not good enough.
The men of the church should be formally serving in the ministry of the
church. Thank God for those of you who do, and today I call those of you
who do not to take your place as a man of God in the work of God through
your church!
Finally, we are compelled to take our place as men of God very much for
each other! It is a biblical truth that all we need is the Christ. Paul said in
Philippians 4:11-13, “Not that I speak in regard to need, for I have learned
in whatever state I am, to be content: I know how to be abased, and I know
how to abound. Everywhere and in all things I have learned both to be full
and to be hungry, both to abound and to suffer need. I can do all things
through Christ who strengthens me.”
Very true. We strengthen as we individually grow in the Lord to the point
that we can endure much more, achieve much more, capable of much
more… AND, it’s also true that we are strengthened by each other and by
the faithfulness of the men around us.
Solomon wrote in Ecclesiastes 4:9-12, “Two are better than one, because
they have a good reward for their labor. For if they fall, one will lift up his
companion. But woe to him who is alone when he falls, for he has no one to
help him up. Again, if two lie down together, they will keep warm; But how
can one be warm alone? Though one may be overpowered by another, two
can withstand him. And a threefold cord is not quickly broken.”
What’s often not considered is that Paul’s famous statement that he can do
all things through Christ who strengthens him was immediately followed
by him writing in Philippians 4:14, “Nevertheless, you have done well that
you shared in my distress.” Here’s the point and the plain fact. When you
don’t take you place as a man amongst men, you hinder the men around
you…
Moses needed Aaron, Gideon needed his army, David needed Samuel, Paul
needed Timothy… Jesus in sending out His disciples to the work of the
ministry never sent them out alone…, He sent them out together…
So, what is taking our place as a man, growing up in the faith? We’ve
discussed that. Why? The compelling reasons of for the Lord, for
ourselves, for the work of the faith and for one another. We’ve discussed
that. Let’s talk about a few of the how’s. There are others than these but
these are essential ones to cover…
We take our place in worship. We become strong in His Word. No more
excuses. We learn the Word of God and we make the Word of God the truth
to us. Men that don’t know the Word of God that have been in the faith for
a long time are pathetic. And men that don’t internalize the Word of God as
truth are weak in the faith. We take our place as men of God in becoming
strong worshippers of God and becoming strong in His Word.
We take our place in integrity. We become strong in our word. We
become men that are dependable, that show up, on time, every time, or we
let folks know we are going to be late. When we miss, we hold ourselves
accountable and let those whom we run this race with know we are going
to miss. No more being absent and unaccountable. That is for children, not
for men. We become the man that others depend on… In whatever
circumstance of life. We have 10,000 teachers, but not many fathers, why?
Because we have so few men of God in the family of God.
We take our place in warfare. We become strong in our preference
towards others, kindness towards others, patience in offense towards
others, we take our place in the capability and appetite to suffer so that
others will not. We do what others will not do. We become strong.
We take our place in service. We outserve one another. We fill gaps. We
ensure all that is needed is provided. We take responsibility and radical
accountability for every community and circumstance we are in…
This is the only way. Take up your cross and follow Me, Jesus said… And
this is what is so desperately needed of one another and in truth, what is so
desperately needed from ourselves.
Be strong, therefore, and prove yourself a man. And keep the charge of the
Lord your God: to walk in His ways, to keep His statutes, His
commandments, His judgments, and His testimonies, as it is written in the
Law of Moses, that you may prosper in all that you do and wherever you
turn.